The Road To Success. Hey everybody, once again glad to have you. Is the fear of success real? Is the Road To Success easy? Because one pursues their passion, will the journey come to an end that much sooner? No it doesn’t, but it is easier than the alternative. I came to realize that the journey to success no matter how you define it will have ebbs and flows.
And even though everybody’s blazes their own Road To Success, there are common rules that every success story follows. I am pursuing my passion for affiliate marketing. When looking back, I see now that I had to overcome the fear of success. Not only that, following my passion does not make the journey easier if I continue to doubt my ability to succeed.
Road to Success
“He is able who thinks he is able.” ~Buddha
Success, no matter how you see it, is achievable once you have discovered your purpose. It is not something you choose, your purpose chooses you. Your calling will be heart felt, you will feel it within your core. Once you no your purpose you will have a clearer vision of your path to success.
- Your are not completing your projects (this could be at work or at home).
- You talk about what you are going to do more than what you actually do.
- Working furiously on several projects at once, not really focusing deeply on any one of them.
- You still have exactly the same things on your vision board that were there five years ago.
- You second-guess yourself often.
- Distraction is your middle name.
- You don’t think your work is ever quite good enough.
- And the big giveaway…you’re on the verge of ‘success’ and things start going really wrong.
- Fear of Appearing To Be Nonspiritual
- Fear of Standing Out
- The Fear of Change
Why we fear Success
Success is feared because the high priority and the stress we put on ourselves have to it. If you can identify with any of the negative energies mentioned above, then you have found what is weighing you down.
Like anything else worth obtaining, success must start with a good foundation. Success may be flaunting because of a faulty foundation. For instance, when you build a house, you lay a foundation and do all the things that are proper according to code and specs.
Then you plan to erect a two-story residence. What if in the midst of building your foundation you cut a few corners or in our case our destiny, you decide to make a change and build another floor, the foundation won’t hold.
If the foundation is not solid, success like of house of cards will come down. When you don’t have the proper foundation and motivation success will not happen. Even if you have success and want to race anything forgiveness can, but not vindication.
If you want to success to win approval or phrase, that’s the week motivation. I’m not saying it’s a bad motivation I’m just saying that it’s too weak. If your motivation is for vindication it will not happen. These are tips that have helped me get over the fear of being successful and finally believe in myself:
1. Be positive.
Negative thoughts are like MiracleGrow for fear and self-doubt. Stay away from negative people and you will decrease the amount of negativity in your life at least by half.
Practice daily gratitude, write down all the positive events in your life, practice mindfulness and you will notice how your negative attitude will start melting away.
2. Continually remind yourself that you are part of something larger than you.
You do the right things, you help people around you, you make being a good person a priority, and you know that this isn’t just about you—it’s also about the bigger picture that you’re part of. These thoughts always give me the courage to try something new and believe that my life is successful because of the doing, not the outcome.
Do you have a lot on you? I’m sure you do, and I know that you are doing your best at doing what you have to do. But do you know who you are, are you happy? Do you know your passions?
Do you take a time to reflect on your life and figure out your purpose in this world? Unfortunately, most of us get so caught up in responsibilities and goals that we forget to enjoy our lives.
4. Create your success library.
Sometimes when we lose trust in ourselves we just need a little bit of inspiration to push us in the right direction. There are plenty of ways to find inspiration, but we forget about them when we need them the most.
Create a library of quotes, save articles and success stories that have inspired you, create a library of inspiring movies and videos, or create an album of your fun and happy memories. Turn to this library whenever you have self-doubts.
If you have a fear of something you just have to educate yourself about it. It is like walking into a dark room. At first, you feel scared and don’t know what to expect but once you turn the light on, everything gets clear and simple.
6. Live in balance.
No matter how important success might seem to you, it is still important to follow it with balance; otherwise, your journey towards success will turn into an obsession that will ruin everything that you truly love in life.
In conclusion, the greatest fears and the greatest successes will be there for all, in an individual and collective way for all to embrace. As you learn to handle both your right to success and recognize the energy of fear, then you can more readily see the success you deserve.
And as you become more self aware, you can reduce the negative energy you attract. Yes, there are a number of reasons success can be fearful. And if you understand that, you can face these fears, then you’ll be more able to move pass them. Furthermore, you are now in position to continue your life path and share it with the world.
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Thanks for stopping by. I wish you all the best on your Road To Success. And may you be blessed and prosper. Please, let us communicate, share a comment or question and I will get back in touch with you.